The desire to exploit a thing leads to overuse and/or abuse of the thing, which leads to a deadening of sensitivity of the thing, which leads to death of sensitivity of the thing.
Overuse/abuse the sensitivity of your nerves by overloading them with drugs, and they will become deadened and lose their ability to sense anything; they will lose their ability to sense. You will then experience no pleasure.
Overuse/abuse the kindness of others by pretending to be hurt and they will become deadened and lose their sensitivity to your pain; they will lose their kindness. You will then receive no kindness.
You need not understand the thing, you need not be aware of the thing, you need only good will.
You need not direct good will 'toward' the thing, you need not consider the thing equal, you need not be aware of the thing, you need only good will.
This entry was inspired by the following few sentences from an article by 'Zenpriest' on the subject of women who try to control men by fanning and thwarting their sexual desires:
And, here is the core of that damage: not only do fewer men want those women at all, having been trained by walking pornography to shut down their desires, but to return to Jane’s hypothetical woman - if she goes into a bar wearing sexy clothes and no panties, in order to use men’s instinctive and reflexive reactions against them in order to feed their inner attention whores and get free drinks, and later gets raped…
… the question is not whether or not “she asked for it”, but instead “who gives a shit?”